General Tumblr Boundaries
- Direct Messages: Please refrain from using the messaging system, it would be turned off if we could but sadly it can only be limited to mutuals. Asks are completely fine, however.
- Following: You do not need to ask for permission to follow, but we do occasionally check blogs of people following us. If your blog looks like a bot it may be wise to send an ask first so we don't block it.
- Minors: Check individual BYFs for this, some blogs are too nsfw for us to be comfortable making a blanket statement here.
- Queer 'slur': Please do not tag any of our queer posts as 'q slur.' If you are uncomfortable with the usage of the word do not interact with the post.
- Venting: Please ask before venting and tell us what you are going to be venting about/how serious it is. We do not have the capacity to take on other people's emotional problems at this time.
- Advice: Generally, we prefer people not ask our advice in anything we haven't shown some level of competence in.
- Discourse: If you want discourse, go to Adonis' blog. Please don't bring discourse to the rest of us.
- System Terms: We use 'headmate' for the members of the main system. The subsystems use 'aspect'. We are comfortable with people calling anyone in the system 'alter' as an alternative.
Discord Boundaries
- Friend Requests: Only if we have talked for a while beforehand and gotten to know each other a bit.
- Pings: Please do not unless we have expressed that it is ok. Our host has pretty severe notification anxiety.
- Direct Messages: Only if we are already discord friends for similar reasons to above, and only if we do not share a server/it wouldn't be appropriate for said server.